Monday, September 22, 2008

Things that I have learnt & have yet to learn...


I've learned .. That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I've learned .. That when you're in love, it shows.
I've learned .. That just one person saying to me, 'You've made my day!' makes my day.
I've learned .. That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
I've learned .. That being kind is more important than being right.

I've learned .. That you should never say no to a gift from a child.
I've learned .. That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
I've learned .. That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I've learned .. That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.

I've learned .. That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
I've learned .. That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes. I've learned .. That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
I've learned .. That money doesn't buy class.
I've learned .. That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.

I've learned .. That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned .. That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
I've learned .. That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I've learned .. That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned .. That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.

I've learned .. That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile, but I've failed to do so nowadays...
I've learned .. That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I've learned .... That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned .. That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I've learned .. That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.

I've learned .. That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away. (I will do it as often as I can coz it is a blessing that my mum is still alive and living her life healthily for the family)
I've learned .. That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I've learned .. That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I've yet to learn.. That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned .. That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.

I've learned .. That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

如水 - 卫兰

期待过我们似细水
可惜蒸发出眼泪
明白你最近有些暂时伴侣
偷一刻午睡
彷佛专一使你极空虚
怀疑被你抱着我念着谁
无论你再好亦舍得失去

难过亦过难道我嫌损失未够多
早放手可减轻痛楚
不等泡沫给吹破
不想去知谁填补我

无悔在我还是我任你多麽差错
无谓去追问为何
深知告别损失非我
让情人离别似水清洗我

原谅你对着我说谎
出於好意的作状
明白你最近已经避谈近况
早不敢寄望
心中早把相爱如观光
情如瀑布泻下也未惊慌
心境已随着那水花得到释放

难过亦过难道我嫌损失未够多
早放手可减轻痛楚
不等泡沫给吹破
不想去知谁填补我

无悔在我还是我任你多麽差错
无谓去追问为何
深知告别损失非我
让情人离别似水清洗我

难过亦过难道我嫌损失未够多
早放手可减轻痛楚
不等泡沫给吹破
不想去知谁填补我

无悔在我还是我任你多麽差错
无谓去追问为何
深知告别损失非我
让情人离别似水清洗我

心中有涟漪吹过又回到最初平静去做我

Saturday, September 6, 2008

拔罐 Cupping Glass


i went for cupping glass treatment last night, as i felt super aching on my shoulder... and it was my very 1st time to do this treatment, and gosh! it was so pain! and my back looks so ugly... but most of all, hey, i am all right now! ALL CURED!!! amazing! i feel really good after the aunt did the treatment for me, even though i felt supa dupa pain and my shoulder now looks really ugly and terrible... but all WORTH!!! thank you aunty!!!

Friday, September 5, 2008

September's Quote


Love is not getting, but giving...


~Henry Van Dyke

Saturday, August 30, 2008

heart ache

how to describe this feeling? what will make some one's heart aches? when will some one feel heart aching?

last night, I've discovered something that i never thought it will ever happened... some one was gossiping bout what i did recently, and i knew too a lot more doesn't happy with me as i was not the chosen one, i don't care bout the a lot more, i don't care for that some one too, at least i am trying my VERY BEST not to bother bout that some one for quite a long period... but, the truth is cruel, that some one is some one that i never thought will gossip or comment about what i did & done, at least not to the friends around, but, it happened... i was shocked to know the truth... it beat my emotion to the lowest again...

i cried myself to sleep last night... and feel extremely sad for the whole night... but, someone cheered me up again this morning, by sending me sms & calling me up... thank you my dear... i really appreciate what you did for me...

Now that it's all said and done,
I can't believe you were the one
To build me up and tear me down,
Like an old abandoned house.
What you said when you left
Just left me cold and out of breath.
I fell too far, was in way too deep.
Guess I let you get the best of me.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.

You took a hammer to these walls,
Dragged the memories down the hall,
Packed your bags and walked away.
There was nothing I could say.
And when you slammed the front door shut,
A lot of others opened up,
So did my eyes so I could see
That you never were the best for me.

Well, I never saw it coming.
I should've started running
A long, long time ago.
And I never thought I'd doubt you,
I'm better off without you
More than you, more than you know.
I'm slowly getting closure.
I guess it's really over.
I'm finally getting better.
And now I'm picking up the pieces.
I'm spending all of these years
Putting my heart back together.
'Cause the day I thought I'd never get through,
I got over you.


the song above, is kinda, nope, it is really suit for me... thanks baby to share this very meaningful song with me...

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Secret Love

secret love - buddha bar

想哭‏

相约在一个适合聊天的下午
分开很多年满以为没有包伏
我还打算回顾我们为何结束
还想问你是不是一个人住
当你微笑给我礼貌的招呼
当我想诉说这些年的感触
你却点满桌了我最爱的食物
介绍我看一本天文学的书
我想哭不敢哭难道这种相处
不像我们梦寐以求和幸福
走下去这一步是宽容还是痛苦
我想哭怎么哭完成爱情旅途
谈天说地是最理想的出路
谈音乐谈时事不说爱
若无其事原来是最狠的报复
当我想坦白我们的乐多于苦
你说水星它没有行、星好孤独
我才明白时间较分手还残酷
老朋友了再没资格不满足