Sunday, June 29, 2008

Saturday outings... 280608


went out for the whole day on Saturday...

had dated with ChaiWoon that we will be going to try out the restaurant at Holland Village, which actually, a new friend of mine is working there as a chef, so, after confirming everything, we decided to go there for lunch and also meet this new friend of mine there for the 1st time...

we had great lunch served by this friend - Nelson, and we had spent the whole afternoon there till 7pm. We left after i get my baby's text msg that she will be meeting up with me at BPP at 7.30pm...

i met up with baby at BPP around 8pm and we had our dinner at Delifrance bistro and after the dinner, we had a cup of tea at Starbucks... we have not been catching up with each other for a long period and we had a good time spending with each other...

thanks to ChaiWoon, Nelson and most of all, Baby for the companion on my Saturday...

Sunday, June 22, 2008

I Wish You Love


Goodbye...
No use leading with our chins...
This is where our story ends...
Never lovers, ever friends...

Goodbye...
Let our heart call it a day...
But before you walk away...
I sincerely want to say...

I wish you blue birds in the Spring
To give your heart a song to sing
And then a kiss, but more than this...
I wish you love...

And in July, a lemonade...
To cold you in some leafy glade
I wish you health, but more than wealth
I wish you love...

My breaking heart and I agree...
That you and I could never be...
So with my best, my very best
I set you (myself) free...

I wish you shelter from the storm
A cozy fire to keep you warm
But most of all, when snowflakes fall...
I wish you love...



Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Sickening News


today, I've revealed another ugly fact that happened around me... why oh why??? why can't people be more faithful to their very own partner? why??? okie.. i have not been faithful enough, and i do not want to cheat myself that i don't hold any responsibility for what happened before, but then, hey, since you are married, can't you be more faithful to your wife or to your partner? why do you wanna do such disgusting action behind her? i really look down on you! i am so disappointed to know this happening around me again... my friend, i am sorry that i can't tell you face to face what did i know, i think it is better not to let you know... perhaps, he will realize sooner or later, and he will be faithful to you again in the future... i hate people who has been not loyal to their own partner, and that's including myself... but I am learning to love myself back, as i knew, i didn't do that purposely... i am not innocent especially after i knew the truth, but i did not do everything intentionally... that is something i am very clear about...

just when can i leave this country? gosh!!!!!

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Overnight at McD


the 2 of us are really crazy... we spent the whole night at McD at Pioneer Mall...

Friday, i was on medical leave due to back pain, running nose & cough that made me can't sleep well for few weeks... it is either i can't sleep well every night and wake up several time in the mid-night, or the worst is, i can't sleep at all, til 2am in the morning... the doctor had issued one day medical cert for me so that i can have a good rest at home... and i did have good rest and sleep for almost the whole day... and doing some laundry too at home...

Chaiwoon msn-ed mi to go for a swim after her working hour, so i agree to go with her and we went there at 7pm... then after the swimming session, we decided to have a drink at McD nearby my house and we had called my colleague, BP Tan to join us as he is staying somewhere nearby and, i have promised him to introduce chaiwoon to him...

i went off after he reached as i have something to do at home, and i promised to return as soon as possible, coz i feel bad to left the two strangers alone... i returned after 30 minutes and found them talking happily with each other... and then i found out that they were college mate before... oh... what a small world... and they actually knew each other 8 years ago... i am truly happy for bring them for the meet up, as meeting up with old friend is truly exciting... and we chit-chatted till 2am and we let BP went back home coz, we girls still have lots to catch up with each other...

and these two crazy lady was sitting at McD till 730am this morning, then decided to go home after we took our breakfast... and guess what? we don't manage to sleep and we talked again on MSN for about another hour, and finally, i went for lunch with aunt and after i finished my lunch, i finally feel the sleepy bug biting me, and i get myself to sleep for about 2 hours... later will need to have dinner with some colleagues from MCT and i hope i get to sleep well tonight... tomorrow will have BBQ... ehehheheheh!!!

Monday, June 9, 2008

The Reason


i just discovered the reason why something not up to me happened on my day... and found it really heart-aching, to know that something happened on that day that touched me, was actually, might be a trap for me to fall in... gosh... just how can i stop trusting people around me?

Sunday, June 8, 2008

My New Laptop


okie... i bought a new laptop and i am of coz currently very much addicted to it... and because of this new laptop, i slept at 4am dis morning... partly also cause by a fren who was chatting with me too last nite... and guess what? we chatted till 4am... gosh... and i am very sleepy for the whole day...

will talk more bout this new toy of mine soon... good nite everybody!!!

Duanwu Festival 端午节

Dragon Boat Racing

Dragon Boat Festival racing in Macau
Zongzi: Rice dumpling with red bean filling

Zongzi: Rice dumpling with red bean filling

The Duanwu Festival is a Chinese traditional and statutory holiday. It is a public holiday in mainland China[1][2] and in Taiwan, where it is known as the "Duanwu Festival". It is also a public holiday in Hong Kong and Macau, where it is known as Duen Ng Festival. Its alternative name in English is "Dragon Boat Festival", after one of the traditional activities for the holiday.

The Duanwu Festival has also been celebrated in other East Asian nations. For their equivalent or related celebrations, see Dano (Korean festival), Tết Đoan Ngọ (Vietnam), and Kodomo no hi (Japan).

The Duanwu Festival occurs on the fifth day of the fifth month of the Chinese calendar, giving rise to the alternative name of Double Fifth [3]. In 2008, this falls on 8 June. The focus of the celebrations include eating zongzi, which are large rice wraps, drink realgar wine, and race dragon boats.

History

Origins

The Duanwu Festival originated in ancient China. There are a number of theories about the origins of the festival. Today, the most commonly accepted version relates to the death of poet Qu Yuan in 278 BC, detailed below. There are, however, a number of competing theories.

Qu Yuan

The most well-known traditional story holds that the festival commemorates the death of poet Qu Yuan (c. 340 BC - 278 BC) of the ancient state of Chu, in the Warring States Period of the Zhou Dynasty. A descendant of the Chu royal house, Qu served in high offices. However, when the king decided to ally with the increasingly powerful state of Qin, Qu was banished for opposing the alliance. During his exile, Qu Yuan wrote a great deal of poetry, for which he is now remembered. Twenty-eight years later, Qin conquered the Chu capital. In despair. Qu Yuan committed suicide by drowning himself in the Miluo River on the fifth day of the fifth month.

It is said that the local people, who admired him, threw food into the river to feed the fish so that they would not eat Qu Yuan's body. This is said to be the origin of zongzi. The local people were also said to have paddled out on boats, either to scare the fish away or to retrieve his body. This is said to be the origin of dragon boat racing.

Wu Zixu

Despite the modern popularity of the Qu Yuan origin theory, in the former territory of the state of Wu the festival commemorated Wu Zixu (526 BC - 484 BC). Like Qu Yuan, Wu Zixu was a loyal advisor whose advice was ignored by the king to the detriment of the kingdom. Wu Zixu was forced to commit suicide by the king Fuchai, with his body thrown into the river on the fifth day of the fifth month. After his death, Wu Zixu was revered as a river god. In places such as Suzhou, in Jiangsu province, Wu Zixu is remembered during the Duanwu Festival to this day.

Pre-existing holiday

Modern researchers have theorised that the commemoration of Qu Yuan or Wu Zixu were superimposed onto an existing holiday tradition, but has subsequently overtaken the original significance.

One theory points to the traditional rituals of the Duanwu Festival, which mostly relate to avoiding diseases. Thus, it is said, Duanwu Festival originates from rituals designed to avoid disease during the mid-summer months (corresponding to the fifth month of the Chinese calendar).

Another theory, advocated by Wen Yiduo, is that the Duanwu Festival had its origins in dragon worship. Support is drawn from two key traditions of the festival: the zongzi and dragon boat racing. Throwing food (zongzi) into the river is said to represent offerings to the dragon king, while dragon boat racing comes from the worship of the dragon, combined with the tradition of visiting friends and family on canoes.

One view is that the festival is a celebration that is characteristic of ancient Chinese agrarian society: the celebration of the harvest of winter wheat. Offerings would be made to gods and spirits on this date: in the ancient Yue, dragon kings; in the ancient Chu, Qu Yuan; in the ancient Wu, Wu Zixu (as a river god); in ancient Korea, mountain gods (see Dano (Korean festival)). As interactions between different regions increased, these similar festivals were eventually merged under the same name.

In the early years of the Republic of China, Duan Wu was also celebrated as "Poets' Day," due to Qu Yuan's status as China's first poet of personal renown.

Activities

The three most widespread activities for the Duanwu Festival are eating (and preparing) zongzi, an angular rice ball wrapped in reed or bamboo leaves; drinking realgar wine, and racing dragon boats.

Other common activities include hanging up icons of Zhong Kui (a mythic guardian figure), hanging up mugwort and calamus, taking long walks, and wearing perfumed medicine bags. Other traditional activities including a game of making an egg stand at noon, and writing spells. All of these activities, together with the drinking of realgar wine, are designed to ward off disease or evil.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

June's Quote


The way to love anything is to realise that it might be lost.


~G.K. Chesterton~

Happy Birthday to Mi!


Yes, today is my 27th birthday, i am 27 now, going to 30 very soon.. And i am a hot single lady in town, haha!

Anyway, Kaili was here wid Saimun for da past weekend, and we spent da weekend together with Honwen n his college mates from kl, quite enjoyable outings wid dem and i did buy lots of stuff for myself.. And Kaixin is da 1st person who wished by calling me at 11pm on my birthday eve, followed by Chaiwoon's sms at 1130pm den da most suprise was da sms from John, he is da one who text me on time, den by Meiyen, Choiyen n Kaili..

I got my youngest sista's call early in da morning at 830am, den got Cecil n Puiyee's text msg too, also recieved text msg from my dear Chinyee..

got email's wishes from Rizza at my hotmail, hallmark's e-card from my dear Erica at US, friendster msg from Janice and William, friendster comments from Kathy n dear Meipeng, facebook wall msg from dear Meiyen, multiply msg from Andy, most of all, Chaihar has wished me too on her msn messenger's title.. Laney talked with me by MSN too dis afternoon while she actually jz woke up der in UK.. John has called me too to wish me happy birthday..

Yeetyng has text to me finally at 9pm as i was waiting for her text till my neck has gone longer.. Last, but not least, Puiyee called me too, and i am really happy for all da wishes from all da people dat i care..

Now dat i know very much dat i am blessed with so many blessing frens n their warmest wishes.. I went to Jurong Point and manage to buy my Adidas shoe and had lunch at Pizzahut with Aunt, Katherine n little Evelyn.. They too bought me a birthday cake at Begawan Solo, n celebrated my birthday with me..

I am really happy for whatever i got, even der is still one more person who promised will to call me but has not call till now, but am really happy for everything i get on today, my 27th birthday.. Thank u!

(written: 02June08, 2359)

today, i finally got her wishes... my baby... she send me a friendster comment... and that is really sweet... thank you baby... you know that really means a lot for me... if you are reading this, i was not working on my birthday but went for shopping with my aunt, ah gal & meimei at Jurong Point yesterday... miss you much and hope to see you soon...